Straight men are finally starting to appreciate the glory of sex toys. Cock rings, strap-ons, or butt plugs are the most popular toys in sixteen states, according to a survey of Google shopping searches. Granted, two of those toys can be used by women, but the point is people are broadening their horizons of who gets to experience the love of an inanimate object. “I think the cultural norm has shifted and people are willing to explore more,” says Dr. Evan Goldstein, founder and CEO of Bespoke Surgical.
Ahead, sex positions to open up a whole new world of retail therapy for you both.
The Ringside Seat
A cock ring helps him last longer and feel you more intensely, and if you pick one with a some vibration, it will rub against your clit in a most beautiful way. Perch yourself on the edge of a table, legs spread wide so you can both watch his engorged self slide on in.
The Satisfied Customer
Give him a whole new experience with a next level masturbator. Straddle his chest and engulf his penis with a toy like the Satisfyer Men that has a soft cushy inside that adjusts to give him as tight a fit as he likes. You can just work it up and down his shaft to give him your undivided attention or shift your V to his mouth so he has to work a little before you’ll let him get off.
The Semi-Deep Throat
If deep throating is only on one’s of y’all’s bucket list, enlist a toy like Blow Yo to handle those last few inches. Kneel between his legs, straddling a pillow topped with a vibrator for hand-free stim for you. Stroke his shaft with the ribbed toy while your mouth takes on the head and a much more manageable amount of shaft. Deep throating: literally never necessary!
The Suck and Cover
Before you go deep with prostate play, introduce him to his male g-spot with some external stim that’s totally not (yet) “butt stuff. “ Lie him back with a pillow under his ass so he’s propped up all nice for you. Perform your usual delightful BJ moves and when he’s super turned on, press a vibrating toy firmly against his taint, then shield your eyes. Get something versatile like Lelo’s Loki, so you can use it later on him for internal stim when/if y’all decide he does want some butt stuff after all.
The Trip Sitter
A man is never quite the same after he experiences the deeper more intense orgasms that come (er…) with prostate stimulation. Make that shit happen for him (hopefully not literally) with a vibrating prostate toy like the Aneros Vice. Once he’s super turned on, slide it in, turn in on and sit on his dick. Thrust slowly or just feel him bulging inside you and rub yourself. Honestly, this will blow his mind so much that your main role is just to be his trip sitter.